How Use Your Vibrator?
Much like Ben Stiller meeting Robert de Niro in Meet the Parents, using a vibrator can breathe fear into any well-intentioned person's heart. Persistence, like in Meet the Parents, always pays off especially when you are still learning how your vibrator can best pleasure you. A lesser known fact is that both women and men enjoy vibrators in a number of ways although vibrators are most commonly associated with women seeking vaginal and clitoral stimulation. Conversely, many men swoon over the penile or testicular stimulation a vibrator can offer not to mention the anal eroticism both sexes can explore. Variety is the spice of life and the same goes for vibrator sex toys, try out several models all at once or one at a time, to maximize your pleasure and discover which vibrator or sex toy is best for you. But before you start getting frisky with your vibrator, take a minute to read these vibrator use tips, inspired by the Good Vibrations Guide to Sex that will help you avoid a few detours or pitfalls on the road to achieving "the big O":
• Nothing is more crucial than getting yourself in the mood. Read a dirty book, walk around the house naked, or explore a favorite fantasy. Do whatever it takes!
• Monitor your arousal level and experiment with deep breathing to see how this affects your sexual response.
• Try different positions. Lie on top of the vibrator, lie on your back with the vibrator on top of you, and grasp the vibrator between your thighs. Run the vibrator over different parts of your body.
• Try moving the vibrator around to touch different parts of your genitals. If you're a woman, you can press the vibrator against your clitoris, the clitoral hood, the mons, labia, vaginal opening, and anus, or you can insert it into your vagina or anus. If you're a man, you can run the vibrator along the shaft of your penis, or press the vibrator against the base, the scrotum, the perineum, and around or into your anus. Try pressing below the glans on the bottom side of your penis. You can also press your penis against your abdomen with the vibrator to disseminate the vibrations through your pelvis.
• Vary the pressure and speed with vibrator use. Experiment with a steady, direct pressure; alternate between a hard and light pressure; or try stopping and starting. Many vibrators come with more than one speed or a variable-speed control, so that you can switch gears any time.
• If the vibration is too intense, don't place the vibrator directly against your genitals, but move it slightly, diffusing the vibration. Or place your hand, clothing, or a towel between the vibrator and your genitals to absorb some of the vibration.
• Enhance your vibrator play by teasing yourself. Pay attention to your arousal level and turn your vibrator off intermittently.
• Incorporate other types of stimulation-touch other parts of your body, use some other sex toys, watch a porn movie, or talk dirty to yourself.
• If the vibrator doesn't make you come, don't worry-for now, just play with it for fun. The vibrator might make you come too fast, or the vibrator might numb you out so that you're unable to come. Only by experimenting with the vibrator can you figure out how to maximize your own pleasure.
• Don't forget to use lots of lube with your vibe!