Dildo Harness Shopping Tips
Buying a harness is a little like buying a car—price, size, and style will influence your choice of dildo harness. Like your first car, if you're experimenting with dildo harnesses for the first time and you don't want to make a pricey investment, you may want to consider a dildo harness that is made of less-expensive fabric. However, if you know what you like and you are looking to get at least a few years of dildo harness play out of your new dildo harness, you will most likely want to invest in a long-lasting, good quality, leather dildo harness model. The most important feature for comfort and ease of use with dildo harnesses, is that the straps be adjustable to allow for the best fit and dildo mobility regulation.
A little tip—adjustable waist straps that fasten with buckles allow for a superior custom fit with more stability than dildo harnesses that fasten with D-rings. However, any harness with adjustable straps—i.e. buckles or d-rings—will be better than simple elastic straps that will eventually sag and compromise comfort. If at all possible try on a variety of harnesses to determine which brand and model best fits your personal needs and preferences before purchasing the harness. Many online shipping services allow for merchandise returns if the product has not been used, so this is another option which is available to you.
The editors of Good Vibrations suggest that you should "select a harness with an opening or ring that fits snugly, but not too tightly, around your dildo. Preferably the ring in your harness should be made of flexible latex, rather than unyielding metal. While some people prefer the aesthetics of metal, it can be rough on more delicate silicone dildos. Most leather harnesses have a ring around the harness opening as reinforcement-soft leather stretches, and nobody appreciates having the harness opening stretch to the point that the dildo falls right through. Some harness rings snap on and off, allowing you to exchange rings of various diameters to accommodate a range of dildo sizes."
Once you do purchase your dildo harness set, please do not forget to keep your harness as clean as you would any other sex toy item. Most harnesses can be hand washed with mild soap and water, and should be allowed to dry thoroughly before being put away. When working with a high quality leather harnesses, do not allow it to dry in front of direct heat if you don't want the leather to crack and age prematurely. You can clean high quality leather with saddle soap—just go to any good equestrian or leather goods supply store—and condition the leather with oils if need be. Some dildo harnesses require special attention so please read manufacturer information for details on product care.