Tips and Cautions Using BDSM Sex Toys

Bondage restraints don't tend to come with instructions, so we've put together to do, not to do section concerning bedroom bondage toys. Some of this information may seem a little overwhelming at first, but if bondage or BDSM play is part of your sexual play, you owe it to yourself and your partner to be knowledgeable and responsible.

First, you must make sure that your partner is restrained in a secure and comfortable way so that they also can enjoy the bedroom bondage experience. If stress on muscles and joints is not part of your bondage fantasy, your partner must feel comfortable in the position that he or she is restrained in for bedroom bondage activities. As important as the safety of the bedroom bondage toys maybe, it is important to make sure that your partner is not leaning up or lying against anything that may become irritating or painful during your bondage play session. Don't be afraid to communicate during bedroom bondage play and make sure that your submissive or you are comfortable with the bondage fantasy.

Blood flow and breathing should never be restricted no matter what the temptation may be, do not cut off the blood circulation or airflow of your partner during BDSM or bondage play. Never tie anything around the neck and be extremely cautious if and when restricting the wrists and genitals: make sure the bondage toy is secure but do not cut off the blood circulation. Even if you use gags and masks in your bedroom bondage, always make sure your partner's nose and mouth are revealed and able to take in air.

Please do not leave your partner's arms or legs suspended in the air during bondage play as blood flow will be lessened and limbs will become numb and tingly. Communicate with your partner and lower their limbs during your bedroom bondage fantasy when he or she asks or when the limbs start to feel cold. If bedroom bondage play is going to last a long time, plan for periods of time where your lover can move his/her limbs to get the blood circulating.

Never leave someone alone when their movement is restricted during bedroom bondage play as this could be very dangerous for the submissive. If bondage play consists of abandoning the submissive, make the submissive is always in eye sight as you may need to release your partner quickly in case of emergency.

Make sure all your bondage sextoy gear can be removed quickly in case of emergency and plan to have keys, or surgical scissors readily available if bedroom bondage fun takes a nasty turn.