Five Senses Of Bondage
Having one of your senses—taste, touch, sight, hearing or smell—restricted can create a very powerful sensation during erotic play. The rule of thumb decrees that if one of the five senses is taken away, then all the other senses become more powerful and more sensitive which is what creates the excitement in bondage play. The following is a list of different sex toys and different ways to block or control the five senses of your partner to make bondage or regular sex play twice as sensual.
Sight Blindfolds have long been the most popular way to restrict your partner's sight and keep them guessing your every next move in bondage play. Once you apply the blindfold, your lover's sense of touch will radically increase making him or her all the more susceptible to your touch. Using a blindfold in bondage play also increases anticipation and it helps to form a bond of trust between two people.
Touch In bondage or erotic sex play, restricting a partner's sense of touch is almost impossible, but you can control the sensations that your partner will feel very easily by carefully choosing what you apply to their skin and how you do it. Aside from sensual massage oils you can explore playing with ice or hot candle wax. Heat things up with your partner by cooling things down and running ice along your partner's skin or genitals during bondage or vary the sensation by dripping hot candle wax from a sensual erotic candle on to your unsuspecting partner's body.
Clamps, Pinching, Tweaking etc… If having your nipples pinched, you may want to consider exploring the sensations that can come from using nipple clamps on your nipple and other parts of your body during bondage play. Most nipple clamps available can be safely used on other parts of the body for a total body titillating bondage experience. Remember to be safe and always let the wearer test the clamps on the area of skin between thumb and forefinger before applying them on the body for bondage play. Nipple clamp sex toys should also be attached behind the tip of the nipple and not directly to the nipple itself.
Sound The ability to listen and hear different noises can be arousing in and of itself especially if your other senses are being restricted in bondage play. Although you cannot stop your lover from hearing everything, you can muffle sounds to render them under your control in bondage fantasies through either eliciting relaxation or tension. Try having your lover listen to music through headphones or have them wear ear muffs or just listen to the sound of your voice.
Smell and Taste Smell often brings up memories, so lighting a scented candle or wavering scented sensual oils before your partner's nose when engaging in erotic bondage play can elicit very powerful emotions and control their moods. Likewise taste also plays a very important part in human memory and enjoyment especially in sexual or bondage play. Slather some scented or flavored lubes onto your partner to make a tasty bondage treat for you or them.