Few Ideas To Get Started

Bondage Sex Toy Play Bondage sex play is not limited to bondage and being beaten as most people tend to believe. Bondage is a part of bondage and BDSM play, but being beaten or any other bondage activity is always consensual. There are many bondage or BDSM scenarios which you and your partner can play out with maximum pleasure and safety. We've selected a few scenarios to get you and your partner started with bondage or BDSM play. Please note that a dominant is the person who holds the power and is in control while the submissive is the one that offers themselves to the dominant.

Restraints in Bondage Play Most people have experimented with tying up their partner up in one way or another and have sexually pleasured them where no spanking, whipping, paddling or flogging is involved. Restraint without pain is a mild form of bondage play and using handcuffs or ankle restraints are often an exciting and safe way to engage in this type of bondage play.

Restraint and Erotic Teasing In some types of bondage play, the submissive is restrained and teased with different types of sex toy stimulation at the dominant's will and is not permitted to orgasm until the dominant allows. This often builds such arousal in the submissive that the explosive orgasm that comes from this type of bondage play often prompts many replay bondage fantasys.

Uncomfortable Bondage Restraint In this type of play which should be left to people who are comfortable with bondage play, the submissive is restrained in an uncomfortable manner, where varying degrees of stress is put on the joints and muscles are stretched to the point of pain. With this type of bondage the submissive can then either be teased by the dominant or the submissive has to pleasure the dominant while in this discomfort. The release of endorphins, when the body is under such stress, is usually the outcome which is desired in this bondage play. This type of bondage play is for the more experienced players.

Role Playing There is still another type of bondage play that centers about an exchange of power with a little bondage fantasy role playing. This fantasy bondage play is more dramatic and ritualistic, rather than stressful or painful, as the submissive is restrained and ordered to please the dominant as well as required to accomplish small tasks at the dominants will.

Bondage Restraint Plus Sensory Deprivation And still another type of erotic bondage play is to not only restrain the submissive, but to deprive him or her of one of the five senses to increase stimulation during bondage.

Bondage play can be a lot of fun and your imagination is the one true limitation during these exciting erotic encounters. However even the most imaginative bondage player needs the occasional suggestion. Adult videos and adult DVDs specializing in bondage, fantasy and BDSM role play education are often an excellent source of bondage scenario ideas and of role play suggestions. View a few with your partner and let yourself be inspired.