Using Vibrating Sex Toy During Sex
Q: My girlfriend and I would like to start using a vibrating sex toy to intensify our orgasms during sex, but I don't want to use a vibrator that looks like penis. Any suggestions?
A: Congratulations on being open not only to incorporating a sex toy into your sex play with your partner, but also on talking with your partner and making a joint decision regarding the purchase of a sex toy. Vibrating sex toys come in a number of shapes and many include adjustable speed and intensity controls to intensify your pleasure. Vibrating bullets and eggs sex toys are very popular due to their versatility and their nondescript shape. Bullet and egg vibrators can either be used on the clit, the penis, the anus or as an insert into other sex toys to create pleasurable vibrating sensations.
A wand, like the Flex-O-Pleaser, is another great sex toy that does not resemble a penis and that stimulates external genital regions as well as the internal genital or anal regions—especially the g-spot and the prostate. If you and your partner are comfortable with anal play, vibrating anal jelly beads are another popular sex toy that produces intense vibrations that coupled with the erotic sensation of the anal beads being inserted and removed, makes for an emotionally and physically concentrated sex play. Anal beads can also be used for vaginal play, although the resulting sensations are not as sensitive as when the anal beads are used for anal sex toy play.
However, please remember that it is important to keep any sex toy clean. The use of condoms is recommended to keep all adult sex toys clean and to minimize the risk of transmitting viruses or bacteria especially if the sex toy is being used both anally and vaginally or between partners. To get the most pleasure from your vibrating adult sex toy use a new condom for each partner and for each part of the body. Be sure to use mild soap and water to clean the vibrator after use but be careful not to immerse the vibrator in water as this may damage the batteries!