Purchasing Descreet Sex Toy

Q: I am married and I have never had an orgasm and I would like to see if I can have one using a sex toy but I don't want to upset my partner. What would be a good, discreet sex toy for me to purchase that would get the job done and keep my partner in the dark?

A: Applaud yourself for your desire and willingness to explore new territories in order to experience your first orgasm, don't keep your partner completely in the dark about his or her inability to bring you to orgasm. Use a vibrator and/or a sex toy not only to pleasure yourself, but also to learn more about your own sexual triggers through masturbation with the vibrator and/or sex toy. Once you have determined what feels good for you and what you need to achieve orgasm and feel fulfilled in bed, share your new-found techniques with your partner to improve both of your love and sex lives. You may even consider incorporating the sex toy into your mutual sex play when and if you are both comfortable with the idea. Try watching a few adult videos that will demonstrate how to use and choose the sex toy for you, how to achieve better orgasms, or how to add fantasy and orgasms back into your married sex life.

As for introducing vibrators into your sex life, for utmost discretion try something like the mini-classic vibrator or a vibrating bullet. Test out the Gigi - g-spot vibrator by LELO, and enjoy its powerful vibrations that will bring you serias of unforgettable orgasms.