What Is Cybersex?
Reply to: anon-XXX@somerandomlist.org
Date: 2003-08-07, 10:44AM
if you don't mind talking with a random person over the internet about good sex (i don't), I'd like to share stories.
If you liked this e-mail invitation, don't worry, there are thousands more like it offering everything from cybersex to coffee dates to BDSM sexual play to a good raunchy sex chat to pass the time away. Why is cybersex or online chatting so appealing? Cybersex offers all of the thrills and naughty thoughts of real sex, but without any of the risks as you remain as anonymous as you want.
Cybersex is a sexual act that takes place online between two or more people where each party, yes there can be more than two people involved at once!, creates and acts out a fantasy sexual encounter including the other parties until the desired climax is achieved. People can be as racy as they desire when sharing erotic stories, describing previous or fantasy sexual encounters, or initiating virtual sex acts. As your identity is never disclosed, you can try out different names, personalities, genders, or sexual preferences to fulfill all of your sexual fantasies.
Cybersex is a wonderful forum in which normally shy people feel more at ease in asserting their personal sexual desires. Occasionally a strong sense of community develops between a group of users through continued intimate conversations. Some couples also find that cybersex is a great 'stand-in' for long distance relationships or for couples who do not live together. However, the development of such cybersex relationships has prompted a serious debate—is cybersex cheating?
There is no in-between stance on this issue: people wither believe that cybersex is cheating if you are in a monogamous relationship, and then there are others who believe that cybersex is no different from fantasizing, masturbating, reading erotica or any other form of sexual erotica. Although each person must come to their own conclusions, we suggest that you to look at cybersex as a form of sexual exploration where you can explore your fantasies, learn new techniques, and adopt a bolder communication style all of which can only help you improve your sexual relations with your current partner. However, if the intent of engaging in cybersex is to deliberately avoid or hurt your partner, then you may want to take another look at your relationship with your partner and with your computer. So if you're behind the keyboard and into exploring cybersex for all of the right reasons, go for it and may we suggest a vibrator or two to help things along?